For A Friend

My dear friend called me up last Saturday evening and said that she needs to talk to me......but just nice, i was out galivanting that moment >.< so didn't get to talk to her much....she wanted me to check out her blog when i have access to my PC .....so i did on Sunday.....

Alright girl, here you go......i'm going to pen down in here, and u make sure u r reading this conscientiously RIGHT NOW :p

i believe we have gone thru the same topic many times, or almost everytime we meet >.< and i've given my cents worth of nagging *lolx*......ultimately, u already had decision in mind what to be done, or should i say, what u wanna do about the situation......

to me.....if u asked me a few years back, my decision would be that of yours.....'' he is what i ever wanted, and i'm going hang in there and never say no! ''.....but if u asked me now, i would say, three chances and let's call it quits, no matter how perfect he is ......

Lies, from frens, are already enough to kill, let aside the one whom u deemed u love...... A lie, which bears the intention of not hurting the other party would only work ONCE, if u do it the 2nd time, the intention changes.....and only he himself knows why he is saying/ have said that lie.....

U shared with me time and again on the pack of lies he had up his sleeves and even teared badly becos of it, and yet, u find reasons to forgive him after that......i discouraged u on holding on, but i guess it just went IN and came OUT......but of course, i could only advise u on how should u handle this issue, the rest would be up to you....

As usual, u know that u can always look for me to hear u out or when things turn really nasty.....but u've been thru that rough patch once and i was there to witness the days n nights that u utterly freaked out and lose urself, so i hope and wished that it won't happen anymore.....

There's always a limit to our patience, regardless of work or love....when they cross the borders and betray our trust in them, it's when reconsideration takes place.

hmmm....it seemed like i am nagging again *lolx*....

to summarise......when situations like these really get u down, i think it's about time you reprioritise the things in your life.....

i'll still be here if u can get me >.< but do remember :

" The secret of a good life is to have the right loyalties and hold them in the right scale of values "