02 September 2009
For A Friend
Alright girl, here you go......i'm going to pen down in here, and u make sure u r reading this conscientiously RIGHT NOW :p
i believe we have gone thru the same topic many times, or almost everytime we meet >.< and i've given my cents worth of nagging *lolx*......ultimately, u already had decision in mind what to be done, or should i say, what u wanna do about the situation......
to me.....if u asked me a few years back, my decision would be that of yours.....'' he is what i ever wanted, and i'm going hang in there and never say no! ''.....but if u asked me now, i would say, three chances and let's call it quits, no matter how perfect he is ......
Lies, from frens, are already enough to kill, let aside the one whom u deemed u love...... A lie, which bears the intention of not hurting the other party would only work ONCE, if u do it the 2nd time, the intention changes.....and only he himself knows why he is saying/ have said that lie.....
U shared with me time and again on the pack of lies he had up his sleeves and even teared badly becos of it, and yet, u find reasons to forgive him after that......i discouraged u on holding on, but i guess it just went IN and came OUT......but of course, i could only advise u on how should u handle this issue, the rest would be up to you....
As usual, u know that u can always look for me to hear u out or when things turn really nasty.....but u've been thru that rough patch once and i was there to witness the days n nights that u utterly freaked out and lose urself, so i hope and wished that it won't happen anymore.....
There's always a limit to our patience, regardless of work or love....when they cross the borders and betray our trust in them, it's when reconsideration takes place.
hmmm....it seemed like i am nagging again *lolx*....
to summarise......when situations like these really get u down, i think it's about time you reprioritise the things in your life.....
i'll still be here if u can get me >.< but do remember :
" The secret of a good life is to have the right loyalties and hold them in the right scale of values "
09 August 2009
08 August 2009
Hot & Lazy Saturday
it's gonna be stay home Saturday to rot with Mummy =) Hopefully to come up with productive stuff in the cooler evening =)
05 August 2009
蒲公英的约定
小学篱芭旁的蒲公英
是记忆里有味道的风景
午睡操场传来蝉的声音
多少年后也还是很好听
将愿望折纸飞机寄成信
因为我们等不到那流星
认真投决定命运的硬币
却不知道到底能去哪里
一起长大的约定
那样清晰打过勾的我相信
说好要一起旅行
是你如今唯一坚持的任性
在走廊上罚站打手心
我们却注意窗边的蜻蜓
我去到哪里你都跟很紧
很多的梦在等待着进行
一起长大的约定
那样真心
与你聊不完的曾经
而我已经分不清
你是友情还是错过的爱情
02 August 2009
I'm Back >.<
haven't really had the FEEL to blog nowadays, but i think i should start somewhere, isn't it? =)
Been pissed with life at work everyday cos of a pest that is busy Facebooking and planning personal leisures at work......
FINE.....since this is gonna be the case and there's NOTHING i can do about it.....then why not i start doing it too? afterall.....i hold a lower salary! but of cos...i'm always the busiest in the department and gonna be busier tomorrow onwards -_-''
Always remember! " 人在做, 天在看! '' .... and empty vessel that behaves THAT way, u gonna get that kinda shit you deserve!
Bah.....forget bout all these crappy shit......a job is just a job anyway......
04 June 2009
Pinkdot.Sg
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Thumbs up to my favourite dance by Pinkdot.Sg!
31 May 2009
*Hog's breath Cafe*

For appetizers............

Then came our mains =)
and Wen's recommendation......
Blackened Steak (300gms)

it was realli yummie! haha.......and i'll be going for it again real soon >.<
20 May 2009
Restaurant City @ Facebook
Addicted means rushing home straight after work and place myself in front of the PC until 1am in the morning! How outrageous it is,isn't it?? keke......i'm addicted! Obsessed! Engrossed! haha.....watever u can think of lor! *lolx*
this is my restaurant ' Phanie's Cottage ' in Restaurant City! hahaha.....
It's Gelare Day! >.<
had made a date with Junez and Shan to have sinful Gelare waffles for dinner.....
but in the end.........
Dinner was tasty Apple Crumble Pizza @ Pastamania
haha.....a nite's of super carbo! i could feel the fats building up in me! it's horrible!
but it was quality time spent with girls =)
ladies : let's go for something healthier for me for our next makan session,okies >.<
oh! oops!.....i recalled! it's gonna be another sinful dinner! ......hahahaha!
17 May 2009
13 May 2009
Made my day =)
For one moment........i was like 'Wow'.......i did make a difference in someone's life =) kinda glad to hear that.....at least, she made today a better working day for me =)
i love this part of my life whereby i could be there for anyone, everyone =) i might have wasted too much time focusing on others who didn't appreciate....so it's about time to spend on those whom needs me more =)
Family & Friends.....they are always there no matter whatever fails......... =)
12 May 2009
I'm Back >.<
MINZ! i know you are one of them =p
So I AM BACK into ACTION *lolx*..... have not been blogging for so long.....so where should i start blogging from leh? hmmm.....
Aunt Aggie
Well.....I've been Aunt Aggie these few weeks to some of my broken-hearted friends =) Not sure how much i have helped, but hopefully, i did say somethings that could really ease some of the pains =)
Entertainment
Mmmm.....i'm back to my occasional drinking =) ever since after Zircon left for BKK, i have stopped for quite sometime =) my new drinking kaki is non other than my darling cous, whom is finally gonna be out from NS soon! *yippees*
Work
it's getting kinda suckier in there, cos nowadays, i get easily pissed off by some 'emotionally uncontrollable thingy' in the office.....Well, if you think i can control my temper, then this thingy is gonna test my patience to the MAX -_-''
"Stef, be nice"......haha....a constant reminder that rings in my ears after some kinda consultation with my BAS time to time when i feel so pissed =)....but hor.......how to be nice when some 'thing' dun even know that it is shitting on my head! *crap* i just gotta hang in there, isn't it?
Okays......i guess that's most of the updates that you all have missed so far =)
Stay tuned! >.<
02 May 2009
31 March 2009
* Automated Carpark *
Tiffy wanted to try out the new automated M-Park @ Club Street =)
keke......so interesting......
Apparently...People's Park has something like that but isn't very pleasant looking enough to use ;p.....but this M-Park is new and it looks reali fun!
All we need to do is to park in this metal door......and press 4 digits to get the thing activated.....any 4 digits! Woohoo!
Upon retrievable, to use back the 4 digits too!
And wala! here is your car!
and this is how the interior looks like =) systematic and neat >.<
and it's just a cheap $1.50 on a Sunday =) ooooooo.......
25 March 2009
Little Miss Sunshine >.<
Sick =(
Mummy's delicious congee
sick sick sick =(
Was down with kinda flu during the Suburban Run last 2 Sundays ago, then was running and sneezing.....which was kinda irritating
then came up with kinda coughing spells last Tuesday which lasted for more than a sickening week.... in the end, landed up seeing the doc last nite after completing my payroll thingies *sigh*
doc gave me 4 kinds of medication to feed on =( which amounted to $56.70!!! Just then, i realised i only had $36.00 on me *argh*
have to owe the clinic $20over, to be paid tomorrow ...haha....sick but true ;p
i've been on congee diet whole day today and wanna get well soon and feed on fried n sinful food =)
and pray hard 'someone' learn to close her mouth when coughing and stop spreading the virus back to weak people like me *yawn*
14 March 2009
Graduation >.<
Stephie's graduation ceremony is on 04 April 2009! >.<
haha....... i am graduating with Bachelor of Arts (Honours) in Business Administration & Human Resource Management (Lower Second Class)
urm....... Lower Second Class sounds wierd :s.......but i got to be blessed that i managed to pass and graduate so smoothly =)
heeee......finally i'm a degree holder! Yippee Yeah Yeah for Stephie!
Friday the 13th
hmm....can be considered kinda suay cos i had a deep papercut at 10.30am in the morning! Argh!
but then, the whole day went quite smoothly.....
Was out at night for my usual hardcore drinking session.....
What's surprising for a Friday the 13th is that..... i managed to have a nice chat with a darling friend and realised that it's always nice to have someone there to hear your woes whenever you needed someone =)
Towards the end of the nite, i had to bid farewell to all my BKK drinking kakis =( the past few weeks were kinda enjoyable with them around *sigh*
28 February 2009
He's Just Not That Into You
Watched this movie last nite and realised that situation shown in it is sooooo very true about HIM and HER...... Ha! One thing that is true enough is : " if he is not into you, he's not gonna call you...... and if he's into you, he will find ways to get you out".......
What can i say >.<>
So r u the Exception? Or r u the Rule?
10 February 2009
Stephie is a happy girl!
I PASSED all my subjects!!!!! which meant......... i get my DEGREE!!!!!! Yeahhh!!!!!
Haha! Didn't expect to be so fortunate =)
Just hope this is the final result and no moderation will be done anymore =(
Graduation ceremony is in March/April 2009 >.<
This calls for a celebration! Haha! another reason to drink drink drink drink !!!





